Educate yourself
I have a friend who engaged herself to a Sex Video with her boyfriend. Both of them really loves to do the Anal Sex . According to her it really give both of them pleasure. One of our common friend tell a story about how he was being exposed in Gay Porn . We need to explain to people that there are differences between male and female, which are important, but there are also common features too, which are just as important. Looking at a school textbook if you are lucky you will see a cross-section of the female reproductive organs. And that’s it for sex now let’s get on with algebra and conjugating verbs.
The squeamishness is frightening. We are doing our daughters a tremendous disservice. They need to know how all that stuff works, it is very far from self evident. Girls need to be told what it is all for. They need to learn that the clitoris is there for pleasure same with the anus as well and has other function. It has reduced in size relative to the penis which has expanded way beyond the utilitarian requirements of an inseminating nozzle but has actually increased the number of nerves designed to register touch and generate sexual pleasure. They need to be taught that orgasms are painless and shameless. They need to be taught that dipping a penis repeatedly into the vagina is as sensible a way to guarantee an orgasm as drinking a bottle of wine is to guarantee a good time. It works every time for some few lucky people, but for others it fails every time and for most it is hit and miss.
At the moment there is a huge amount of money in pornography. This would change. Just think about what has happened to the music industry and multiply that effect a hundred fold.